Suggestions on things to keep me busy..

[zerosixMR]

So,

as cliche' as this sounds, I don't like publicizing my personal life, but all of my other routes of venting have their own shit to do.

My girl of 4 years just broke it off with me last friday, the 29th of aug. I went on about the week like any normal week. I was trying to keep busy and not let her think it was bothering me too much. Come mid week, she starts texting me shit like "I miss you so much," ect ect. Well, I tried to play it as cool as I could, but I gave in. This past friday we made plans to hang out today, on labor day. Everything was fine and dandy until I found out she signed up on a dating website and has been avidly talking to several guys. One of who she's serious with telling him all sorts of shit like she's a freak in bed, ect. Anyway, she gives this guy her number. That's as much as I know as of last night, sunday night.

I've never been so fucking confused and hurt in my entire life. I have no idea what to do about my situation with her, much less what kind of shit to fill my time with that doesn't remind me of her. So far the only thing I can do with out reminding me of her is to go hit up the gym.

Any input would be completely appreciated. Thanks everyone.

Joel

[steevo8]

I would suggest fucking a skank. Some knarly dirty break her back kind of sex. Make it a point not to kiss her or cudle. After get drunk with some friends and talk about how you pounded some whore.

If that's not for you, get back into a old hobby or sport.

[mtsevovii]

swing by the range today. good venting :lol:

shooting really relaxes the mind. hahaha makes you forget about most things and enjoy the moment.

[sprytsi]

Hang out with some Evo owners and talk about masturbation?

That sucks, since she broke up with you and seems to have no plans to get back together with you, it's time to move on. Try cleaning house of all the shit you accumulated over the last 4 years and have a bon fire. Block communication with her for a while until you can handle being around her, but don't do it until YOU can handle it, no matter how much she begs or wants to be friend. You have to get over her before a friendship can begin, otherwise you will just find yourself acting like her b/f because that's what you have always been.

Pick up some old hobbies, think back to the time before you were dating and how you were then. When in doubt, go back to your roots.

R/C Car evo? Paintball? Laser Tag? Arcade? Video Games? Movies?

[steevo8]

Get a diy book on something you always wanted to try. That's how I got into porting things a few years back. Some shitty shit happened and I always wanted to learn how to port so I bought like three books and a set of heads from pick and pull.

Some other ideas:

Detail your car.. Bumper to bumper inside and out
Go back to school a day or two a week
Martial arts

[nebolic]

well first thing you need to do mate is to delete that number of your cell phone and have it blocked. it does you no good talking to her.

if you agreed that it doesnt work out then dont try to be a nice guy and be there like you've always been but yet you're not her boyfriend anymore.

focus your energy in school or work, and go to the bar/club on the weekends and look at the all the fine bishes you've been missing out on for the past 4 years.

Best thing is to hang out with friends, and try not to stay at home, cause you'll just mope around.

if you're in the sactown area, hit me up, i'll take you out to a few places to get your mind of your ex.

nebo

[zerosixMR]

Get a diy book on something you always wanted to try. That's how I got into porting things a few years back. Some shitty shit happened and I always wanted to learn how to port so I bought like three books and a set of heads from pick and pull.

Some other ideas:

Detail your car.. Bumper to bumper inside and out
Go back to school a day or two a week
Martial arts




LOL martial arts. I've always wanted to try that man. I'll look into see how much it costs. but still, the first rule comes... Evoparts > self defense. The faster the evo, the quicker I can drive away after I run people over.

[zerosixMR]

well first thing you need to do mate is to delete that number of your cell phone and have it blocked. it does you no good talking to her.

if you agreed that it doesnt work out then dont try to be a nice guy and be there like you've always been but yet you're not her boyfriend anymore.

focus your energy in school or work, and go to the bar/club on the weekends and look at the all the fine bishes you've been missing out on for the past 4 years.

Best thing is to hang out with friends, and try not to stay at home, cause you'll just mope around.

if you're in the sactown area, hit me up, i'll take you out to a few places to get your mind of your ex.

nebo



Nebo,

thanks bro, I totally appreciate that offer and I'm probably gonna take you up on it. I'll pm you when i'm ready to go hit the town lol. Just tryin to stay positive and hit up my long term goal of attaining a six pack on my stomach. that'll make the going out at night thing easier :D

[dabaysevo]

Hit up friends you haven't seen a lot of since you got with your girlfriend. Guys tend to disappear off the face of the planet when they are with a girl, friends get ignored. Time to have guy's night out. There's nothing better than shooting the shit with good friends at a bar or club and not having to worry about talking nice to people. But like Nebo said, don't lock yourself in the house for too long. Idle mind is the Devil's workshop.

[RREVOVIII]

Hang out with some Evo owners and talk about masturbation?
+1 :lol:

[s14er]

just go and hang out with your friends man

[sprytsi]

mindless sex with cheap women? Real doll?

[peter]

a trip to a strip club will do the trick.

works for me

[Mr Evo]

a trip to a strip club will do the trick.

works for me

+1
Play some W.O.W

[sprytsi]

a trip to a strip club will do the trick.

works for me

+1
Play some <B>COD4</B>


Maybe find the local sleezy porn store and figure out what the young flexible freak chicks are doing.

[wzcx]

Play some games, hang out with the guys and complain about girls... and find some other cute girl's shoulder to cry on. I just got dumped too, and FUCK am I ever bummed out.
Make sure you spend plenty of time outside, and working out. Tiring yourself out works wonders for helping you sleep instead of obsessing over how upset you are.

[dl_EVO]

Kick her ass..

she deserves it after dumping you and trying to play games with you..

Kick her ass..

[dabaysevo]

Make me sandwiches, that'll keep you busy. Bring them to the P-Hill meet this week or I'm coming after your ass.

[Ben]

Kick her ass..

she deserves it after dumping you and trying to play games with you..

Kick her ass..


Whoa...

[MR EVO 8]

Yeah, go to a strip club man.

Actually last time my ex broke up with me I ended up spending $600 bucks on a stripper...Maybe not such a great idea.

I picked up a lot of new hobbies: Paintballing, Photography and Porn.

[dl_EVO]

Kick her ass..

she deserves it after dumping you and trying to play games with you..

Kick her ass..


Whoa...


LOL...

Maybe I should of put a smiley face or something...

[dl_EVO]

I just feel that she broke up with him and that's fine. People grow apart..

But....to say " i miss you " etc etc after the fact she broke it off with him..

ON TOP of that.. she is openly dating other guys while she is telling him she misses him...

She deserves to get her ass kicked.

:)

[Fa-Q]

Try banging a close relative/friend of hers...sister, mother, cousin, best friend, ALL HER FRIENDS, etc. That'll teach her.

Edit: For real though, she is obviously playing games. What goes around comes around, she get hers one way or another. Rid yourself of her BS and move on with a clean slate.


Edit 2: At least bang one of her friends, doesn't even have to be a close one. B/C banging an ex's friend > than your ex banging some dude.

[SavageEvo8]

a trip to a strip club will do the trick.

works for me


centerfolds?

[dabaysevo]

NCE Official Strip Club Meet

[Lurk]

I just feel that she broke up with him and that's fine. People grow apart..

But....to say " i miss you " etc etc after the fact she broke it off with him..

ON TOP of that.. she is openly dating other guys while she is telling him she misses him...

She deserves to get her ass kicked.

:)


She deserves some sort of humiliation. I think the OP should play some games right back with her. Maybe reciprocate with the "I miss you" stuff, invite her over one night. Get her drunk, and set up a hidden camera. Then put it in her butt, do some ATM, and skeet on her face.

Send a copy of the tape to her family and friends. :D

[xBobbyMRx]

^HELL YEAHS!

I like where you head's at mang. That's what I'm talkin about. Get that hoe! :lol:

[JERRY]

I'm sorry for your misfortune with the ex, but there's always something better out there. In the mean time, watch all the porn you can, hit up the clubs and bars to find all of the chicks you even consider humping and hump them. You'll feel 100000000000 times better and you'll get it out of your system. Then, you can take the time to find a new girlfriend.

Jerry

[zerosixMR]

I'm seriously laughing my ass off at all of your suggestions....

rofl!!

"Kick her ass...."


Yeah, it's been hard but I think i'm starting to see it for what it is. She's scared to loose me completely and if I fuck with her head and go on with my life and just act like I dont care about her, she'll get it. Im believe she kind of dicked me on this whole process, but she'll get whats coming to her. I dont wish her any harm, I just wish she would see the light and see how selfish she's acting.

New hobbies so far are paintballing and letting my boys take me out to the bars...

Other than that, I also want to keep her friend so that when she starts dating someone new, I'll just fuck her and send the new guy pics and ask him how my dick tastes..

[JERRY]

I'll just fuck her and send the new guy pics and ask him how my dick tastes..


Now you're on the right track!!!! I remember when my friends bumped into my ex in SF with her new BF. She came up and started talking to them, as if nothing happened, so my friends said hi and stuff. She left to go back with someone, and as she and her BF were leaving, one of my friends grabbed his arm, and asked what it was like to kiss a set of lips that was wrapped around my twig and berries for the past few years. When they told me about it, it was the funniest thing EVAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[dabaysevo]

Less typing more sandwich making Hoel. Hurry up its lunch time.

[Fa-Q]

Come on now don't hate on the new guy, he isn't the one fucked you over. Unless he was part of the picture before you broke up, then yes, fuck him over too.

[zerosixMR]

Come on now don't hate on the new guy, he isn't the one fucked you over. Unless he was part of the picture before you broke up, then yes, fuck him over too.


He's getting caught in the crossfire in a battle between me and her. It just so conveniently happens to be a member of this forum, too.

[Fa-Q]

^Oh shit, i thought you were just speaking hypothetically. Sorry, don't want to get up in that mix.

[zerosixMR]

Less typing more sandwich making Hoel. Hurry up its lunch time.



lol shut up beaner. don't you mean you want me to make you a taco. hoel is what my gramma calls me

[dabaysevo]

Come on now don't hate on the new guy, he isn't the one fucked you over. Unless he was part of the picture before you broke up, then yes, fuck him over too.


He's getting caught in the crossfire in a battle between me and her. It just so conveniently happens to be a member of this forum, too.


What happened to bros before hoes? That sucks man, anyway about those sandwiches....... fine burritos.

[zerosixMR]

^Oh shit, i thought you were just speaking hypothetically. Sorry, don't want to get up in that mix.


So you know there's an extra motive there now :)

Plus, if he reads this, he'll know going into it that he's theoretically kissing my future babies.

[Fa-Q]

^Oh shit, i thought you were just speaking hypothetically. Sorry, don't want to get up in that mix.


So you know there's an extra motive there now :)

Plus, if he reads this, he'll know going into it that he's theoretically kissing my future babies.


Is that like eating leftovers of a cock meat sandwich.

[dl_EVO]

That's gross!

To actually know the guy who use to be your GF's ex.

I would get too many mental images, would drive me ape shit.

[sprytsi]

Come on now don't hate on the new guy, he isn't the one fucked you over. Unless he was part of the picture before you broke up, then yes, fuck him over too.


He's getting caught in the crossfire in a battle between me and her. It just so conveniently happens to be a member of this forum, too.


NCE drama!

I usually tried to leave 3 months before trying to do a buddies ex-g/f unless I got prior approval. I never did do any of my buddies ex's though. I have a group of friends that pass around girls like blunts, they all get a ride before she gets tossed in the trash.

[zerosixMR]

That's gross!

To actually know the guy who use to be your GF's ex.

I would get too many mental images, would drive me ape shit.



Haha yeah, I've met this guy too. Previous to all of this small world bullshit.

[nebolic]

wtf, dude just say the word, if he's on here, i'll ban his ass.

nebo

[Ben]

That's gross!

To actually know the guy who use to be your GF's ex.

I would get too many mental images, would drive me ape shit.



Haha yeah, I've met this guy too. Previous to all of this small world bullshit.


Whoa don't broadcast this kinda thing!