and again, a break comes into play.

[evotechIX]

so again, between me and my gf comes in a BREAK. now these things suck ass because its always on my mind and i cant help but think about it. it affects my performance at work and it affects my day because thats all i think about. like for instance, yesterday i was workin on a car at the shop and i started the damn thing with no oil. of course something thats a big NO NO!!! luckily it didnt seize up or anything and the customer wasnt paying attention to it ( rich ass san ramon people and their money and women.. such a bothersome to work with ). anyways, one of the guys working was like WTF!!! i didnt add no oil to this car yet. i was like OHH SHIT MY BAD and i just walked away and sparked a cigarette when another of my co-workers was doing a fuel filter service. another big NO NO!!! he was like, OMG light that shit somewhere else!!! you wanna die or something??!??!?!

i wasnt myself and i wasnt thinking straight. too much of my mind is stuck on my gf and how she wants to let me go. and for a time like this to come around, it just hurts me and i can stop the feeling. today i tried talking to her, but she didnt say shit to me. even yesterday. she needed help because she had no gas in her car. so of course, i came out to help her in milpitas. i handed her 100 but she didnt take it and said that she would just rather get money from her mom or something like that. i was like, SO I CAME OUT HERE JUST TO GET TURNED DOWN? that hella pissed me off and it really made me sad. for the fact that i tried to help her out and she turns it down. that just hurts.

right now, i feel as if its just about that time to let it go, but then again i dont wanna let it go because i know it will kill me inside and then i might do something that i know ill regret doing.

HELP ME SOMEONE!!! any advice anyone?

[peter]

been there bro. one thing you gotta get in your head is that girls will continue to act this way just to see you miserable. i'm no girl expert, but i know they love the chase, and having that power over a guy. if i were you, i'd stop contacting her for awhile. let her do the chasing. shit man up! just make sure she knows you're not all emo and shiet. give it time that's all.

if that doesnt work, you gotta find yourself a new girl. you can throw all those cliche's out there (if you love her, let her go.. etc..) but the bottom line is, if she doesnt feel the same way there's no point in trying. one way to forget about her is to grab all your homies and hit up the strip club. done deeezy!

[evotechIX]

hahaha, maybe i should do that. lol thanks

[dabaysevo]

HELP ME SOMEONE!!! any advice anyone?


Get drunk, really drunk (with friends and a designated driver of course) and make new friends. The sooner you realize that women should never be put on a pedestal the better. Don't try to force things, if she doesn't want to be with you then don't try to make it work. Do your thing like normal and if she decides to come crawling back then that's up to you if you want to deal with her or not. Do anything to keep your mind off her and it makes things easier, hell go as far as talking to other women. Not necessarily to hook up, but just to see what's out there. Broaden your horizons.

[evotechIX]

true. i mean, i hit up bars after work and pound some beers down to relax and all. but maybe i should look into that as well. i mean, people do say THERE ARE WAAAY MORE FISH OUT THERE IN THE SEA. DONT BE STUCK WITH ONE. thanks

[superfleajq]

hey bro... I've been in your situation in the past. My thoughts are, say your piece to her, and leave her be. If she wants to be with you, then she'll be there with you or come back to you. Ultimately, you can't change her mind or how she feels.

Sounds like she's already letting go, but if you love her, all you can do is let her know and see what she does with it. But as others said, let her be the one to chase you...and if she doesn't, it probably wouldn't have worked out anyway.

Yea, there's a lot of fish in the sea, but when the time is right, you'll find the right one. ...I don't really agree with the "don't be stuck with one" thing, as I'm happy to be "stuck" with my one.

Advice? ...go out with friends, relax, do things to get your mind off of her. Easier said than done, but that's life, right?

good luck!

[dabaysevo]

I always say official NCE strip club meet when a member breaks up with his gf but nothing ever happens. :( :lol:

[nebolic]

let it go, if you're meant to be, she'll come back to you regardless of what happens, don't force it. If she's already acting this way, your best option is really just let it go and move on. Sucks at first but you'll feel better after a while.

nebo

[jdmSpecMR]

let it go, if you're meant to be, she'll come back to you regardless of what happens, don't force it. If she's already acting this way, your best option is really just let it go and move on. Sucks at first but you'll feel better after a while.

nebo



i agree, but alsoyou may need to play hard to get cause like mentioned before the girl's like to think they control shit so just ignore her and that just might do the trick it works sometimes. Also dont let her see you emo, that shit rarely works lol. good luck bro, im sure everything will work its way out or in w/ever you prefer. :thumbsup:

[sprytsi]

Your on a BREAK, go have some fun! Bon fire at the beach until 3am, 'accidentally' slip it in the pooper of some drunk girl, and party!

They want you to be hung up on them, if you go out and have fun then it foils their master plan.

If she really still has feelings for you, she'll figure it out, otherwise you are off the hook and need to find some new hobbies. Focus on the happy.

[zerosixMR]

so again, between me and my gf comes in a BREAK. now these things suck ass because its always on my mind and i cant help but think about it. it affects my performance at work and it affects my day because thats all i think about. like for instance, yesterday i was workin on a car at the shop and i started the damn thing with no oil. of course something thats a big NO NO!!! luckily it didnt seize up or anything and the customer wasnt paying attention to it ( rich ass san ramon people and their money and women.. such a bothersome to work with ). anyways, one of the guys working was like WTF!!! i didnt add no oil to this car yet. i was like OHH SHIT MY BAD and i just walked away and sparked a cigarette when another of my co-workers was doing a fuel filter service. another big NO NO!!! he was like, OMG light that shit somewhere else!!! you wanna die or something??!??!?!

i wasnt myself and i wasnt thinking straight. too much of my mind is stuck on my gf and how she wants to let me go. and for a time like this to come around, it just hurts me and i can stop the feeling. today i tried talking to her, but she didnt say shit to me. even yesterday. she needed help because she had no gas in her car. so of course, i came out to help her in milpitas. i handed her 100 but she didnt take it and said that she would just rather get money from her mom or something like that. i was like, SO I CAME OUT HERE JUST TO GET TURNED DOWN? that hella pissed me off and it really made me sad. for the fact that i tried to help her out and she turns it down. that just hurts.

right now, i feel as if its just about that time to let it go, but then again i dont wanna let it go because i know it will kill me inside and then i might do something that i know ill regret doing.

HELP ME SOMEONE!!! any advice anyone?



Totally feel you on this bro as I'm currently going through the same shit. The first step was realizing that it's ok to be alone and it's ok if you dont find someone right away. Let her go. It's going to hurt like hell to see or even think about her with someone else, but that's life. If it was meant to be, it'll all work out in the end. I know that there's nothing that can fill the void she could, but if you smother her with constantly telling her that you miss her and all that bullshit, you're just going to push her away even faster. Be mysterious and definitely, be happy. Her mind and heart will throw up a big "WTF?!?" if you get over her and just go on about your business.

Last but not least; There are a lot of fucking assholes out there. Let her date one of them. She'll realize and appreciate what you were with teh quickness. At the same time, there's also that 50% chance you'll never end up with her again. The sooner you accept both facts, the better off you'll be.


Hope it helps.

[lqdchkn]

Another Break means one of 2 things

1. She wants to be with you but she is fed up. Gave you a second chance but you haven't changed the way she wants and needs to rethink being with you again.

OR

2. She hasn't told you what she wants (she may not even know herself or how know how to tell you). So you can't do anything but be yourself and let her decide.


P.S. #2 sucks.

[evotechIX]

#1 is so true. but then again, im just doing my thing day in day out. going to work, hittin up the bar after work. then workin on my car. just added on an hks hipower exhaust. damn thing sounds bad ass btw. but yeah, in conclusion, im just lettin it be the way it is now. at least now, i can focus more on myself and what i need to be doing. eventually, things will turn up for the better or for the worse, and all of you are right. i cant change the way she feels or thinks. im just gonna let it be. it does hurt a shitload, but i just have to deal with the pain if it wasnt meant to be. but other than that, i know i can always rely on the homies and family. and of course, fixin up the better things in life...EVOLUTION this EVOLUTION that. hahahahhaha

[panem]

go hang out with your friends. driving range or shooting range!!!! hehehehe

[Tripperfx3]

Last time my GF wanted to take a break my friends tried to hook me up with a cute Asian girl. She really liked me a thought I was cute and as soon as my GF heard that I may have met another girl she wanted to get back together ASAP.

[evotechIX]

Last time my GF wanted to take a break my friends tried to hook me up with a cute Asian girl. She really liked me a thought I was cute and as soon as my GF heard that I may have met another girl she wanted to get back together ASAP.


damn, just like that huh? i wish she would think like that too. but then again, thats evil. lol

[peter]

Last time my GF wanted to take a break my friends tried to hook me up with a cute Asian girl. She really liked me a thought I was cute and as soon as my GF heard that I may have met another girl she wanted to get back together ASAP.


damn, just like that huh? i wish she would think like that too. but then again, thats evil. lol


most girls are clingy like that. that's where the ignoring her part comes in and showing her that you're happy without her. it'll drive her nuts and perhaps spark things back up again. BUT definitely not a guarantee, so again hit up the strip clubs till you're happy. (:

[evotechIX]

Last time my GF wanted to take a break my friends tried to hook me up with a cute Asian girl. She really liked me a thought I was cute and as soon as my GF heard that I may have met another girl she wanted to get back together ASAP.


damn, just like that huh? i wish she would think like that too. but then again, thats evil. lol


most girls are clingy like that. that's where the ignoring her part comes in and showing her that you're happy without her. it'll drive her nuts and perhaps spark things back up again. BUT definitely not a guarantee, so again hit up the strip clubs till you're happy. (:


heheheh, bars and clubs are cool. i guess ill hit up the casino. lol cash for parts!!

[wzcx]

I feel your pain, man, I just got dumped six weeks ago by a fantastic girl who changed my life. But she's young and not ready to be in it for years yet. Boo hoo for me.

But I'm headed to tahoe for the weekend with some hot dumb girls from college of Marin. No complaints! Just go chase some other girls and either cry on their shoulder or bang em. (Or both, but not at the same time please that'll really fuck with her mind.)

[evotechIX]

well guys, its official. she dont love me no more and its basically all broken up now. she said that shes given me so many chances to change shit, but during those times, it didnt seem like anything needed to change. and now she cant honor my last chance to save things and fix it. i feel so pissed off, but at the same time, i also feel content. its just going to hurt for a while. right now i got like a really big scar on my heart that i know wont heal up fast.

evo owner DOWN and OUT.

[zerosixMR]

Last time my GF wanted to take a break my friends tried to hook me up with a cute Asian girl. She really liked me a thought I was cute and as soon as my GF heard that I may have met another girl she wanted to get back together ASAP.


If this is the case, the best thing to do is to keep seeing the new girl and let your ex "feel the burn" :D

[dabaysevo]

Last time my GF wanted to take a break my friends tried to hook me up with a cute Asian girl. She really liked me a thought I was cute and as soon as my GF heard that I may have met another girl she wanted to get back together ASAP.


If this is the case, the best thing to do is to keep seeing the new girl and let your ex "feel the burn" :D


If you want her to feel the burn you should put sand on your kawk then do your business.

[zerosixMR]

Last time my GF wanted to take a break my friends tried to hook me up with a cute Asian girl. She really liked me a thought I was cute and as soon as my GF heard that I may have met another girl she wanted to get back together ASAP.


If this is the case, the best thing to do is to keep seeing the new girl and let your ex "feel the burn" :D


If you want her to feel the burn you should put sand on your kawk then do your business.


Stop sharing my personal sex life details with the world. Kthx.

[evilevo9]

Yo evotechIX, evo drivers can be down but never out, that's why we have AWD, to climb out of low spots when we are down!! No worries dude, there will be others that come by, and what's a mechanic with out some scars to show for? 8)

[evotechIX]

Yo evotechIX, evo drivers can be down but never out, that's why we have AWD, to climb out of low spots when we are down!! No worries dude, there will be others that come by, and what's a mechanic with out some scars to show for? 8)


^

heheh, yeah. im just tryin to pull myself out. i gotta boost more. lol

[dsmdeliverybo]

Once she hears that your talkin to other girls or hooking up with other girls she'll be right back to you, same thing just happened to me. My ex broke up with me and then when my friend told her I was hooking up with this bombass girl she started texting me again and trying to get me back and you just have to play hard to get, I dont even really want her back now. Once you find something better you'll realize all the pain and heartache wasn't worth it.

[sprytsi]

Once she hears that your talkin to other girls or hooking up with other girls she'll be right back to you, same thing just happened to me. My ex broke up with me and then when my friend told her I was hooking up with this bombass girl she started texting me again and trying to get me back and you just have to play hard to get, I dont even really want her back now. Once you find something better you'll realize all the pain and heartache wasn't worth it.


+1

Just bang some bombass girls and you'll be fine.

[evotechIX]

Once she hears that your talkin to other girls or hooking up with other girls she'll be right back to you, same thing just happened to me. My ex broke up with me and then when my friend told her I was hooking up with this bombass girl she started texting me again and trying to get me back and you just have to play hard to get, I dont even really want her back now. Once you find something better you'll realize all the pain and heartache wasn't worth it.


+1

Just bang some bombass girls and you'll be fine.


hahhaha funny. she just realized what mistake shes done. of course, coming back to me is always an option for her. she didnt want no dumb ass beezy takin over me and my baby. lolz she just cant get enough of me.

evotechIX is back in the game!!! lol

[superfleajq]

lol, welcome back dude ;)

[evotechIX]

lol, welcome back dude ;)


^thanks for the welcome justin.

[superfleajq]

hey matt, btw! I'm excited!! ...I'm takin my first trip to the philippines w/ my lady in january! :D

..just thought I'd mention it since we talked about it the time we met :)