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    Default Re: and again, a break comes into play.

    Quote Originally Posted by evotechIX
    so again, between me and my gf comes in a BREAK. now these things suck ass because its always on my mind and i cant help but think about it. it affects my performance at work and it affects my day because thats all i think about. like for instance, yesterday i was workin on a car at the shop and i started the damn thing with no oil. of course something thats a big NO NO!!! luckily it didnt seize up or anything and the customer wasnt paying attention to it ( rich ass san ramon people and their money and women.. such a bothersome to work with ). anyways, one of the guys working was like WTF!!! i didnt add no oil to this car yet. i was like OHH SHIT MY BAD and i just walked away and sparked a cigarette when another of my co-workers was doing a fuel filter service. another big NO NO!!! he was like, OMG light that shit somewhere else!!! you wanna die or something??!??!?!

    i wasnt myself and i wasnt thinking straight. too much of my mind is stuck on my gf and how she wants to let me go. and for a time like this to come around, it just hurts me and i can stop the feeling. today i tried talking to her, but she didnt say shit to me. even yesterday. she needed help because she had no gas in her car. so of course, i came out to help her in milpitas. i handed her 100 but she didnt take it and said that she would just rather get money from her mom or something like that. i was like, SO I CAME OUT HERE JUST TO GET TURNED DOWN? that hella pissed me off and it really made me sad. for the fact that i tried to help her out and she turns it down. that just hurts.

    right now, i feel as if its just about that time to let it go, but then again i dont wanna let it go because i know it will kill me inside and then i might do something that i know ill regret doing.

    HELP ME SOMEONE!!! any advice anyone?

    Totally feel you on this bro as I'm currently going through the same shit. The first step was realizing that it's ok to be alone and it's ok if you dont find someone right away. Let her go. It's going to hurt like hell to see or even think about her with someone else, but that's life. If it was meant to be, it'll all work out in the end. I know that there's nothing that can fill the void she could, but if you smother her with constantly telling her that you miss her and all that bullshit, you're just going to push her away even faster. Be mysterious and definitely, be happy. Her mind and heart will throw up a big "WTF?!?" if you get over her and just go on about your business.

    Last but not least; There are a lot of fucking assholes out there. Let her date one of them. She'll realize and appreciate what you were with teh quickness. At the same time, there's also that 50% chance you'll never end up with her again. The sooner you accept both facts, the better off you'll be.


    Hope it helps.
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    Default Re: and again, a break comes into play.

    Another Break means one of 2 things

    1. She wants to be with you but she is fed up. Gave you a second chance but you haven't changed the way she wants and needs to rethink being with you again.

    OR

    2. She hasn't told you what she wants (she may not even know herself or how know how to tell you). So you can't do anything but be yourself and let her decide.


    P.S. #2 sucks.

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    #1 is so true. but then again, im just doing my thing day in day out. going to work, hittin up the bar after work. then workin on my car. just added on an hks hipower exhaust. damn thing sounds bad ass btw. but yeah, in conclusion, im just lettin it be the way it is now. at least now, i can focus more on myself and what i need to be doing. eventually, things will turn up for the better or for the worse, and all of you are right. i cant change the way she feels or thinks. im just gonna let it be. it does hurt a shitload, but i just have to deal with the pain if it wasnt meant to be. but other than that, i know i can always rely on the homies and family. and of course, fixin up the better things in life...EVOLUTION this EVOLUTION that. hahahahhaha
    Now I've come to realize that a dream was only supposed to be a dream that can't go on forever. Owning an EVO was THE SHIT!!!! But now, I must part ways with her. *teardrop teardrop*

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    go hang out with your friends. driving range or shooting range!!!! hehehehe

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    Last time my GF wanted to take a break my friends tried to hook me up with a cute Asian girl. She really liked me a thought I was cute and as soon as my GF heard that I may have met another girl she wanted to get back together ASAP.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tripperfx3
    Last time my GF wanted to take a break my friends tried to hook me up with a cute Asian girl. She really liked me a thought I was cute and as soon as my GF heard that I may have met another girl she wanted to get back together ASAP.
    damn, just like that huh? i wish she would think like that too. but then again, thats evil. lol
    Now I've come to realize that a dream was only supposed to be a dream that can't go on forever. Owning an EVO was THE SHIT!!!! But now, I must part ways with her. *teardrop teardrop*

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    Quote Originally Posted by evotechIX
    Quote Originally Posted by Tripperfx3
    Last time my GF wanted to take a break my friends tried to hook me up with a cute Asian girl. She really liked me a thought I was cute and as soon as my GF heard that I may have met another girl she wanted to get back together ASAP.
    damn, just like that huh? i wish she would think like that too. but then again, thats evil. lol
    most girls are clingy like that. that's where the ignoring her part comes in and showing her that you're happy without her. it'll drive her nuts and perhaps spark things back up again. BUT definitely not a guarantee, so again hit up the strip clubs till you're happy. (:
    kizmet

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    Default Re: and again, a break comes into play.

    Quote Originally Posted by peter
    Quote Originally Posted by evotechIX
    Quote Originally Posted by Tripperfx3
    Last time my GF wanted to take a break my friends tried to hook me up with a cute Asian girl. She really liked me a thought I was cute and as soon as my GF heard that I may have met another girl she wanted to get back together ASAP.
    damn, just like that huh? i wish she would think like that too. but then again, thats evil. lol
    most girls are clingy like that. that's where the ignoring her part comes in and showing her that you're happy without her. it'll drive her nuts and perhaps spark things back up again. BUT definitely not a guarantee, so again hit up the strip clubs till you're happy. (:
    heheheh, bars and clubs are cool. i guess ill hit up the casino. lol cash for parts!!
    Now I've come to realize that a dream was only supposed to be a dream that can't go on forever. Owning an EVO was THE SHIT!!!! But now, I must part ways with her. *teardrop teardrop*

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    I feel your pain, man, I just got dumped six weeks ago by a fantastic girl who changed my life. But she's young and not ready to be in it for years yet. Boo hoo for me.

    But I'm headed to tahoe for the weekend with some hot dumb girls from college of Marin. No complaints! Just go chase some other girls and either cry on their shoulder or bang em. (Or both, but not at the same time please that'll really fuck with her mind.)

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    Default Re: and again, a break comes into play.

    well guys, its official. she dont love me no more and its basically all broken up now. she said that shes given me so many chances to change shit, but during those times, it didnt seem like anything needed to change. and now she cant honor my last chance to save things and fix it. i feel so pissed off, but at the same time, i also feel content. its just going to hurt for a while. right now i got like a really big scar on my heart that i know wont heal up fast.

    evo owner DOWN and OUT.
    Now I've come to realize that a dream was only supposed to be a dream that can't go on forever. Owning an EVO was THE SHIT!!!! But now, I must part ways with her. *teardrop teardrop*

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